You Can’t Build What They Don’t Want
This piece continues a thread I’ve been pulling on for a while. If you want the full context, start with Are We Going to Make Venezuela a U.S. Territory?, then Venezuela and the Failure of the Feel-Good Solution, and Sovereignty Is Not a Religion. The short version: sovereignty isn’t sacred, nation-building doesn’t work, and the rules-based order has learned to protect bad actors as effectively as good ones. Iran is the next test case.
The Graveyard of Good Intentions
The United States has spent the last eighty years trying to replicate the miracle of post-World War II reconstruction. Germany. Japan. Two devastated, defeated nations rebuilt into prosperous democracies. We did it. We’re proud of it. And it has warped American foreign policy ever since.
Because those two cases are not a template. They’re an anomaly. And confusing an anomaly for a playbook has cost us trillions of dollars, thousands of lives, and a foreign policy still searching for an honest reckoning with what went wrong.
What Actually Happened in 1945
Germany and Japan succeeded for specific, unrepeatable reasons. Both nations had been ground to rubble — not inconvenienced, annihilated. Both had existing administrative and industrial infrastructure underneath the rubble. Both had populations that were culturally primed for hierarchical compliance and economic reconstruction. Both faced an existential Soviet threat that made American partnership genuinely attractive. And both were under total military occupation for years, with no indigenous insurgency capable of sustained resistance.
Strip any one of those conditions and the reconstruction story changes. Strip all of them and you get Vietnam. Afghanistan. Iraq. Libya.
The Democracy You Can’t Export
Here’s what the foreign policy establishment refuses to accept: political systems are not software you can install. They are organic expressions of a society’s history, religion, class structure, and lived experience. You don’t get to download democracy into a country that hasn’t built the cultural and institutional substrate to run it.
Iran is the case study. The 1979 revolution was not a coup imposed by a handful of mullahs on a cowering population. It was a mass uprising — a broad coalition of Islamists, liberals, nationalists, and students who united to overthrow the Shah. Khomeini consolidated clerical power afterward, but the revolt itself was genuine and popular. Millions of Iranians took to the streets to bring down a modernizing, Western-aligned autocrat who had the full backing of the United States. And while the current regime has lost significant support among urban, educated Iranians — particularly younger generations — the theocratic framework still commands genuine loyalty in substantial portions of the country.
There’s a second layer to the Iranian story that gets ignored. They chose theocracy, and theocracy failed them — concentrated clerical power with no accountability corrodes exactly like every other form of concentrated unaccountable power. The Iranian people know this now in ways they didn’t in 1979. But it would be a mistake to assume that what they want next looks anything like what we’d choose for them. History suggests they may simply want a different autocracy — one that delivers results instead of repression, nationalist pride instead of theocratic failure.
Anyone who tells you that a military strike on Iran would be followed by a grateful population welcoming American-style liberalism is selling something. What they’re actually selling is likely another twenty-year occupation with no exit strategy.
What Striking Iran Could Accomplish — and What It Can’t
There is a legitimate military case for degrading Iran’s capacity to threaten its neighbors and the broader region. Nuclear facilities. Missile infrastructure. Command and control nodes for proxy networks spanning Lebanon, Yemen, Syria, and Iraq. A sufficiently serious campaign could set back those capabilities significantly.
That’s a real, achievable objective. What that campaign cannot do is determine what comes next inside Iran. It cannot install a government. It cannot manufacture legitimacy. It cannot make Iranians want what we want them to want. The lesson of every intervention since 1945 is simple: you can destroy, you cannot necessarily construct.
Oil and Occupation: The Honest Conversation We Won’t Have
If Iranian oil remains critical to global markets following any military action — and it would — then the question of who controls it becomes immediately practical, not theoretical. Foreign governments have occupied resource-producing territories before. It’s not pretty, it’s not popular, and it comes with its own long-term costs. But it’s at least an honest conversation about interests, as opposed to the dishonest conversation about democracy promotion that has served as cover for resource and strategic interests for decades.
The American public has been asked repeatedly to sacrifice blood and treasure for missions dressed up in the language of liberation. The least we could do is be straight about what we’re actually after.
It may be that the West needs to stop pretending and simply occupy the resource-critical portions of these regions, controlling how those resources are extracted and allocated. That’s not a comfortable thing to say out loud, and it comes with real costs — occupations breed insurgencies, and history is clear on that. But those costs are at least finite and calculable, which is more than can be said for the open-ended disaster of nation-building. And it’s more honest than the current arrangement, where we fight wars, spend trillions, lose thousands of lives, and then hand the keys back to whoever fills the power vacuum — while calling it liberation.
What Does Europe Think?
The Europeans won’t like any of this. They will object loudly, invoke international law, and schedule a summit. But Europe has contributed next to nothing towards making the Middle East stable in over a hundred years — not since they drew the borders, extracted what they wanted, and walked away. They barely lifted a finger to help Ukraine, a democracy being destroyed on their own doorstep. When the moment demanded action, Europe held meetings. It is a continent of meetings and selfishness, and its opinion on how the West should manage the consequences of Europe’s own colonial legacy deserves exactly the weight that record has earned.
Europeans prefer diplomacy because diplomacy costs nothing. No money, no difficult decisions, no political risk. Diplomacy should always be tried — but there is a difference between pursuing it in good faith and hiding behind it because you are too selfish and too scared to do anything real. Europe has turned the second into a foreign policy.
They can talk — Europeans are extraordinarily good at talking. But at this point their opinion on American foreign policy carries roughly the same weight as a backseat driver who doesn’t have a license and has never owned a car.
The Only Lesson That Matters
Afghanistan taught it. Vietnam taught it. Iraq taught it. Somalia taught it. The populations of those countries were not passive recipients waiting to be shaped into our preferred political image. They had their own histories, their own grievances, their own ideas about legitimate governance — and they fought for them.
The next time someone proposes military action followed by nation-building, ask them one question: name a case where that worked, outside of the complete military annihilation of Axis powers in 1945.
They won’t be able to. Because there isn’t one.
Sympathy has limits, and acknowledging those limits isn’t cruelty — it’s honesty. We have millions of Americans trapped in addiction, poverty, and circumstances partly of their own making and partly not. We try to help. We spend real money trying to help. But we don’t bankrupt the country doing it, and we don’t pretend that good intentions alone can override the choices people and societies make for themselves. The same logic applies abroad. The Iranian people deserve our sympathy. Many of them are trapped by a government they’d gladly be rid of. But sympathy doesn’t obligate us to spend another generation of blood and treasure trying to reconstruct a society that will have to find its own way in its own time. We can wish them well and still protect our own interests first.
The lesson isn’t that America should walk away from the world. It’s that we need to be honest about what military power can and cannot accomplish. It can destroy a nuclear program. It can degrade a missile arsenal. It can keep shipping lanes open and resources flowing. What it cannot do is manufacture a stable, Western-friendly government in a society that has no interest in becoming one.
The world doesn’t run on good intentions. It runs on oil, on trade routes, on the credible threat of force against those who would disrupt either. A country sitting atop critical resources and actively funding destabilization across a region is a problem that has to be managed — not because we want their oil, but because the global economy doesn’t function without it and we live in that economy too. Managing that problem honestly, without the nation-building fairy tale stapled to the back of it, is not cynicism. It’s finally being adults about how the world actually works.

